From My Perspective

I write about building a life that feels true to me,
even while what I thought was true keeps shifting under my feet.

My path has taken some intense turns, both challenging and beautiful, and those experiences have continually reshaped how I understand identity, relationships, decision-making, and success.

This is where I share about the moments that stayed with me.


Recent Posts

  • Decorate the Hospital Room

    One unexpected piece of advice that became a lifeline through my darkest times.

  • Home at Last!!

    Happy New Year!! 2021 is off to a bang for us! We manifested a new home on five acres of beautiful desert in Landers and moved in on NYE!! It’s been 16 months since we lost our apartment in Long Beach. We spent 3 months living in a mini van, 3 months in an Airstream,…

  • QAnon

    I feel for everyone losing friends and family to the QAnon cult. I lost several new friends to it recently, people I had come to love deeply and was somewhat dependant on. I thought I had discovered a new tribe of open-hearted, loving souls who embraced me and my family and were on the right…

  • Trans Women are Women

    So disappointed in JK Rowling. I actually had this come up recently with a respected friend and felt so offended by his words. But the honest truth is I didn’t really understand this issue very well myself before my own daughter came out as transgender a year and a half ago. Transgender women are women…

  • Making it Work

    Thank you to the friends who have invited me to create a fundraiser to help me and my family get back on our feet. It’s been hard to share my story or to ask for help, especially over the past year and a half. There has been a lot of blame and shaming coming at…


If you hear yourself in these stories, you are not alone.


Work with Me

If you are in a season that feels unclear, overwhelming, or harder to navigate through with the logic you used to rely on, I offer private sessions designed to help you reconnect with your own internal clarity.

I use Applied Human Design as a framework, yet the work itself is about something simpler: learning how to hear your own truth again.